Tuesday, January 25, 2011

We got our referral...

Last week we were told the MOJ would receive our paperwork and we should receive a referral for the little boy we requested off the special needs list on the MOJ site. We waited all week and heard nothing. Friday January 21st I emailed our caseworker, and she said maybe we would hear something Monday.
Monday comes around and I am waiting and waiting, keeping busy with homeschooling and knitting. Checking our email every now and then (okay, so maybe every 15 minutes). Once 3pm comes around I have come to the realization that we probably didn't hear anything. So I email our caseworker again, and ask if she has heard anything. No response. Okay, so I am feeling sad, crying out to God to please move things so we can bring our son home.
Hubby comes home from work, we sit down for dinner as a family. Then the phone rings, 6:25pm. Our caseworker says Hello Celeste. How are you doing?" I reply, 'it depends what you have to tell me. ' She laughs, I am ready to cry. She then say I wouldn't call with bad news. OKAY, soooo. She then tells me we have a son. We got our referral on Friday and should receive translated medical and travel dates in the next week. She then says, " I thought you would be screaming and laughing." Ummm, nope. I reply,"This has been a rollercoaster ride, never knowing if it was going to happen or not." I think I was in shock and denial. It wasn't until after dinner, devotions and kids put to bed that I finally looked at my husband and said. "Well lets put up the crib. We have a son! We have to facebook all our friends who have been praying and let our family know." Hubby is still being cautious. We have his referral, we know his medical condition but we still have to visit him, make sure the medicals are correct and then still go through court. If everything works out we should have him home by summer time. Still can't believe it, I guess it will be reality when I am actually in Bulgaria holding him. Please continue to pray for him, he had heart surgery over Thanksgiving. Pray for his recovery and health, protection and that a caregiver has compassion on him and shows him affection and love. Thank you for your prayers and following us on this roller coaster of a ride called International Adoption.

18 comments:

Viviane said...

Celeste,

Been waiting for this news right along with you. So happy it's finally happening. Congratulations!

Debby said...

WONDERFUL NEWS!!!! We are waiting to hear if we got a referral, as well!!!!!!

Sue said...

Congrats!!!

Chris Haven said...

Thanks everyone!

Kosel Family said...

yay Girl! I know how you feel thinking it isn't real... we have already visited and it still feels that way! How exciting you get to travel soon :)

Aaron and Jennifer Santor said...

You already know how excited we are for you, but had to write it on your blog as well. Totally understood what you were talking about when the case worker was surprised by your reaction. Things change so much that you guard yourself and are not really prepared to be super excited when it is time. We'll be praying that all goes well with travel and that you will have peace about him being your son. Just can't wait to hear about you meeting him for the first time. We are truly happy for you!!!!!!!

growing our love... said...

Tears, tears, and more tears of JOY!!!! I am so happy for the little guy and your family! Can't wait to follow along on this journey!!!

Katherine said...

Congrats Celeste! I hope you get your documents and travel dates soon. Praying that your little boy is in your arms soon.

butterfly said...

Congratulations! that is such great news! I cam across your blog and would like to continue to read about your wonderful adoption journey! Good luck! I am sure everything will work out just fine!

amie said...

Celeste,
Just to make an official congrats, I had to post it here. CONGRATS!!!!!

Renae said...

Yippeeeeeee! 'Bout time, huh;)! Praying for your new little boy...that you will have a quick trip, and get all your questions answered in country!

Jack and Cheryl said...

The best of news! Congratulations to all of you! So very happy for you!!!

MoserUpdates said...

So excited for you!

Yvonne said...

Ok, your post brought back such memories... and I had the same reaction... I can tell you I have tears of joy right now for you! Seriously, your post made me cry... Congratulations!

perchancetodream said...

I'm SOOOO happy for you!! All the best!

Shelley said...

Congratulations!!!

Sarah said...

SOOOOOOOO happy for you guys!!! Anxiously awaiting more news and continuing in prayer with you!!!

Lori Schumaker said...

Yes!!! I am so happy for you! I will be praying! I'm thinking you will be traveling a bit earlier than us! We won't get the chance to meet up (darn)But the sooner the better for you to get those arms wrapped around that little guy and tell him you love him!