Monday, February 14, 2011

We met our son today....

I will always remember that we met our son on Valentine's Day. We flew into Varna (on the Black Sea) and took a taxi to the city of Dobrich. The ride was about 30 min, not much to see except for farmland. We went straight to the orphanage and left our bags in the socialworkers office. We first met with the Director. We asked her some questions about our son's health condition, his past surgery and his personality. She informed us that he is very stubborn and that because of his heart condition he has gotten spoilt. When he throws tantrums he would get his way. It seems because of his special need he has gotten one on one attention from the workers, and lives a very sheltered life from the other kids. He and 2 other children pretty much live together, eat together and play together. I know he will have a very difficult time when we take him home with us on trip 2. This is all he has known, this is his family.
After talking with the director, they took us to him. He came out of the playroom and looked at us. I have no idea what he was thinking, who are these people? He looked scared and confused. We then got down on his level and offered him some pretzels, that broke the ice. He would take one, walk away, come back again and give one to his friends. He is very sweet to watch with his friends. We then sat on the floor with him . He didn't really want to play, just eat. It was lunch time at this point, so they brought his lunch by us and he sat in a little chair and table by himself and ate. He had rice and chicken broth, and juice. We then left as he was going down for his nap. We will be back this afternoon. We also got to see where he sleeps. He is so cute, and clever.
Once we left we went to our hotel. Kim, it is the same hotel you stayed at. We really like it. We also ate lunch in the hotel restaurant and will be brave tomorrow and go wondering around town. We are looking forward to getting some sleep tonight the time change is killing us. Thanks to all of you who have left comments, it is so very encouraging to hear from you when we are in a strange land.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I have tears of joy rolling down my face to know that you have met your little boy! I will be praying for ALL of you!

Melissa W

Viviane said...

Happy Valentine's Day to the Havens, soon to be party of five!

andersons said...

What a gift - Happy Valentine's Day!!
I am so excited to hear all of the details...
Praying for you!

Aaron and Jennifer Santor said...

Cannot express how happy we are for you!!!! Our son also got spoiled and had a ton of one oon one time with the caregivers. This really helped with his transition and attachment. Now that he is a part of our family he is moving past some of his spoiled ways!!! We will continue to pray!!! I love God's timing too. We met our son 2 years from the day we decided to adopt; you met your son on Valentine's Day. I just love it!!!!

Jason and Kim said...

That's great that you got to see where he sleeps and plays. We weren't able to visit other rooms other than the two bonding rooms. The lady who is the waitress in the hotel restaurant at breakfast and lunch is very sweet. If you are in there a little before 8:00pm you'll see a guy with a black top hat and a long red cape selling roses. He came through every night at that time. The area is great. You can walk through the park to the monuments and to the downtown area from where you are. There's a small supermarket if you go up the stairs to left of the tennis courts and across the street. Enjoy Dobrich and the time that you are able to spend with your son!!

Sarah said...

Oh, the time change is a KILLER isn't it!?!?!

I'm SO happy for you guys! What an amazing way to spend Valentine's Day!

God is so good!

HUGS!!!

Renae said...

Awww, Happy Valentine's Day Haven family! So glad the visit went well:). Praying you get to rest and enjoy your week!